Ed Exposes His Story
“This is how I Got laid using a Hookup dating site that actually works!”
Hi, my name is Ed. I’m 36 years old from Nebraska. Can’t believe I’m actually writing this but for over 6 months now I have been using a hookup dating site to find open-minded women for one-night (sometimes more) stands. This is my story?
I’ve always thought casual dating (hookup dating) wasn’t for me, it didn’t suit me and I thought it would make me feel particularly uncomfortable. There are so many casual dating sites to look at as well and it’s all a little too much. I’d seen a few of my friends do the whole ‘casual’ thing but always thought they were fluffing the details to make it sound easier than it is. If ever there was a skeptic, it was me.
The dating scene is difficult and there are so many high expectations, not just as a guy but in general. I’ve had so many failed attempts at dates it’s unreal. Some have canceled before the first date, some after the first date and some would go to a few dates and it wouldn’t go anywhere. There was no momentum with it and certainly no fun anymore.
I’d pretty much got to the point where I had given up and refused to partake in actual dates, what was the point?
My friends never stopped pushing me in the direction of the hookup and casual dating sites, claiming they actually do work. That there are women who would rather hookup for a few hours rather than going on a full-blown date because let’s face it, the dating process is getting a bit stale.
So, in the end, I decided to look into and really see what it was all about. It was a real eye-opener I can say that much. And of course, my friends were right, there are women who want to hookup for a few hours, and that’s it!
I decided to give 3 sites a go-to hedge my bets. This was a huge deal for me, it was scary but oddly invigorating, there was excitement laced with a smidge of horror. But I was going to give it a shot, I had nothing to lose but a tiny bit of money and pride.
At Fling.com I didn’t have to wait long before I had several messages from other users popping up and from the off it looked pretty promising, even to this skeptic. I was quite shocked at the honesty members used and many stated they were in relationships or wanted something extra. The sites came across as very open-minded and nonjudgement, which was a load off my mind really. It wasn’t long before I was talking to women and exchanging general chit chat about the sites and dating or what they wanted for that matter. It was exhilarating and educational, to say the least.
After a few hours I began talking to a woman called Kat, she lived locally and is a few years older than me so at least knows what she wants. We decided to set up a meet and go from there. She had done this before of course and pretty confident about it all. We had a few drinks at a bar and talked about all sorts but mainly about our sexual preferences and what we liked and disliked in bed. It was easier than I thought and it was quickly obvious we were of the same mind and comfortable with each other. Even if I was pretty nervous inside.
Success! There we were back at mine for a few hours of fun and none of the exhausting or torturing scenarios of dating. It had been the best few hours of my life for a very long time and there was no worry, it was great! Mainly because we could be extremely honest and open with each other rather than paying around each other. Our needs were being met and we were driven that way, not by emotion, which made things 100 times easier.
Now this skeptic uses Fling.com on a regular basis, it’s where my success came from and now I won’t use any other site. Like a good luck charm really but it does have fantastic features and really active members. I was totally shocked that I could arrange meets like this, so easy and so they fit around my life. My life didn’t have to stop for them. So if I get tired of the mainstream dating scene or want to take a break from the seriousness of dating, I use Fling.com and find a hookup easily, really.